Comments on: One-Itis http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2004/05/28/one-itis/ Dating & Seduction Tips, Advice, News, & Gossip Thu, 11 Mar 2010 23:57:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: rrrr http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2004/05/28/one-itis/comment-page-1/#comment-7481 rrrr Tue, 11 Apr 2006 10:53:06 +0000 http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2004/05/28/one-itis/#comment-7481 One itis is cool as long as it doesnt destroy your relationship. I wonder if one itis comes of being restricted in choices or of the intensity of feelings. I think it comes from having intense feelings. Proof is that even this Durden guy has it, why? because what he had with this girl is more intense. Why does one-itis get milder when we go out with more girls? I dont think it has something to do with the number of girls but more with the brain getting used to overcoming one-itis and with the feelings becoming less intense as we grow more experienced. One itis is cool as long as it doesnt destroy your relationship. I wonder if one itis comes of being restricted in choices or of the intensity of feelings. I think it comes from having intense feelings. Proof is that even this Durden guy has it, why? because what he had with this girl is more intense.
Why does one-itis get milder when we go out with more girls? I dont think it has something to do with the number of girls but more with the brain getting used to overcoming one-itis and with the feelings becoming less intense as we grow more experienced.

]]> By: limelight909 http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2004/05/28/one-itis/comment-page-1/#comment-7480 limelight909 Thu, 03 Jun 2004 08:46:34 +0000 http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2004/05/28/one-itis/#comment-7480 i love the feeling of love. i dont shy away from it, but i embrace it. its a great feeling. however, my only problem is that i love lots of women. Svengali had a post on ASF about "MLTR" mulitple long term relationships, in which he describes finding the girl deep inside. Once this connection happens then its a feeling of intensity because the feelings run deeper. This is something that inspires me too and keeps me finding that true "one". i love the feeling of love. i dont shy away from it, but i embrace it. its a great feeling. however, my only problem is that i love lots of women.

Svengali had a post on ASF about “MLTR” mulitple long term relationships, in which he describes finding the girl deep inside. Once this connection happens then its a feeling of intensity because the feelings run deeper. This is something that inspires me too and keeps me finding that true “one”.

]]> By: fjraz http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2004/05/28/one-itis/comment-page-1/#comment-7479 fjraz Thu, 03 Jun 2004 05:55:24 +0000 http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2004/05/28/one-itis/#comment-7479 I hear ya... One-itis was a big motivation for me to get into the community and take the RSD workshop/seminar. It's like I always knew in my head that one-itis was caused by my own social ineptitude and all I needed to do was go out and meet more women, but of course that takes a skillset so that's why I came to you to learn. I can still see though how that would get the best of us, especially as your skills advance to your level and you're consistently pulling 10s. I walked into RSD this weekend with a mild case of one-itis and can honestly say it's cured. I'll be out all weekend opening sets and running game - I CAN'T WAIT now that I've learned from you guys, and ironically the venues I'll be working are where I met her, so this might get interesting. Thanks for your kickass info and for making me see how damn EASY it is to meet very hot women after all the time I wasted out there getting field experience but without having a damn clue as to what I was doing. I hear ya… One-itis was a big motivation for me to get into the community and take the RSD workshop/seminar. It’s like I always knew in my head that one-itis was caused by my own social ineptitude and all I needed to do was go out and meet more women, but of course that takes a skillset so that’s why I came to you to learn. I can still see though how that would get the best of us, especially as your skills advance to your level and you’re consistently pulling 10s. I walked into RSD this weekend with a mild case of one-itis and can honestly say it’s cured. I’ll be out all weekend opening sets and running game – I CAN’T WAIT now that I’ve learned from you guys, and ironically the venues I’ll be working are where I met her, so this might get interesting. Thanks for your kickass info and for making me see how damn EASY it is to meet very hot women after all the time I wasted out there getting field experience but without having a damn clue as to what I was doing.

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