Never take advice about dating women from a woman.

I am a talkative dude and I can tell you one thing. The things you described in your post are not accurate at all.

I used to be completely nice and down to earth and funny and talkative. Now I’m all of those with a new added twist of being a smartass and challengeing.

Sometimes I still make the mistake of slipping back into nice guy mode and I can tell you this. It gets nowhere fast. When I add to that a bit of the ole bad boy attitude chicks most likely like yourselves become interested and attracted. I also learned that whether a girl is picky or not is irrelevant because that doesn’t necessarily mean you are meeting up to my standards anyway.

I hate to tell ya, babes, but I know all this from the guy side of experience.

As far as mind games go, you show me one chick that doesn’t get involved in some sort of mind game when they are choosing their guy. Whether this be pretending they aren’t interested, or saying/doing things to see how a guy will react or asking loaded questions, playing hard to get with a guy you know you want, or expecting him do things or buy things to win your approval.

Sure maybe it’s more natural for chicks to do, so it’s easy to say you don’t engage in it, but you do. I’m not blaming you though, it’s built in selectivity. You have to instinctively find the right mate. It’s what you do. Chicks have it so easy.

The thing is that 80% or more of guys out there just don’t have a clue. Fuck man I’m way better than I was four/five months ago when I started all this. There is a Huge improvement in the amount of successes I’ve had with women.

What was I doing wrong before? Everything you ladies are telling us is right.

Guys here is the deal, yes appoach us even if we look unapproachable…

This is the one thing I agree with.

Oh and I hate to tell you, but Starbuck(s) has great fucking coffee. Im not talking about the foo-foo berry Late, or a carmel gayberry mocha. Im talking about Real Live Coffee that I drink black. It’s good corporate or not, it’s still fuckin good. Maybe I don’t live in cool beatnick cafe town. You just want to hate on Starbuck(s) because it’s supposed to be “Cool” to not like Starbuck(s).

You girls are so fuckin cool…

Guys here is the deal, yes appoach us even if we look unapproachable… being different does not mean you should be cocky or act arrogant, if you demand our number we will laugh at your face, if you are funny, down to earth and straight up you have a bette chance with ANY woman. Women don’t want a man who does not call them for 3 days, or calls and does not ask for a second date… that means u want to be our friend, and by the time you finally do call we would have moved on, as women do not wait around for men (do U want a woman who would wait by the phone for 3 days). Don’t try to buy us, thats insulting, but dont be cheap and take us to Starbuck, you want to go for coffee, take us to a coffee house, or ASK us where we like to go coffee.
btw, we asked alot of our girlfriends before posting this, and they all agree.. dont be cocky be nice.
Relationships are based honesty and friendship, if you start playing mind games, then thats all it will ever be.

We don’t mean to be bitchy, we are trying to help as we know how hard it is to approach someone of the other sex.

Juliet & Rushna